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Ex-Mayor Bill de Blasio and his wife, Chirlane McCray, are separating, the pair announced during a lengthy interview with The New York Times that was published Wednesday.
De Blasio, who occupied Gracie
Mansion between 2014 and 2021, and McCray told the Paper of Record that
after nearly 30 years of marriage they are splitting up and will start
dating other people. The pair,
however, said they won’t be getting a divorce and will continue to
occupy the same Park Slope row house where they raised their two
children, both of whom are now in their twenties.
The couple’s interracial status — de
Blasio is white and McCray is Black — played a role in him winning the
2013 mayoral primary that brought him to City Hall, many political
observers say.
During their interview with the Gray
Lady, de Blasio and McCray said they decided to separate about two
months ago after having a heart-to-heart conversation that revealed
their marriage no longer resembled what it used to be.
“You can feel when things are off and you don’t want to live that way,” de Blasio told the Times.
McCray said she’s looking to have
more “fun” with the new arrangement, seeking a relationship with
someone who isn’t a public figure.
“I just want to have fun,” McCray said. “There’s a certain weight that goes with being with Mr. Mayor.”
They made clear that de Blasio’s
eight years as mayor put a heavy strain on their marriage, given the
intensive 24/7 schedule that comes with occupying the city’s top job.
“Everything was this overwhelming
schedule, this sort of series of tasks,” de Blasio said. “And that kind
of took away a little bit of our soul.”
De Blasio’s tenure as mayor was
also marked by years of blistering press coverage, a failed long-shot
presidential bid and a torrent of criticism over his handling of the
COVID-19 pandemic, which struck during his second to last year in
office. The couple said that the pandemic, in particular, hindered their
ability to plan their lives after the end of de Blasio’s mayoralty.
McCray, who ran a controversial mental health program
within her husband’s administration known as Thrive NYC, said that his
ill-fated 2020 presidential campaign also damaged their relationship.
“I thought it was a distraction,”
McCray said. In response, De Blasio conceded his wife was right: “kind
of true, point for Chirlane.”